A perfect someone, is it me or you or any other person, an intricate question, isn't it ?
I went for the search of the answer far beyond the confines of my mind, just gave it a challenge, analysed not people but personalities, not needs but desires, not accomplishments but aspirations, not truth but the reason behind it, not flower but fragrance, every time I found one personality is complex than the other everyone’s need were different than others’and everyone has their own aspirations, but yes I found one factor everyone had in common, everyone wanted satisfaction and they had a mindset that they will get it on achieving something(what this something is, is again a big question) I being no exception and what it takes to achieve this satisfaction in life is a perfect personality a balanced one, is it, really, but is it really possible, and how far is it achievable?
I saw people in different kinds of situations, they laugh, they cry, they fight, they give up, they lose control, sometimes they bang their heads against the wall in frustration, sometimes they kill themselves. I haven’t seen any person who hasn't been selfish at times, who never said anything vice, who never had a greed, who doesn't want to surpass others in whatever he does, one who never had a lust for anything in life.
So what is a perfect personality, one who can control his anger in the most exasperating situations, one who can come up with a most able idea to take a company to heights when its on the verge of bankruptcy, one who can work for the interest of people rather than himself and still give his best, one who can give most ideal solution for a most complicated problem, one who can smile when tears are at the verge, well there seems to be no perfect answer to this .
The more I searched the more imperfection I found. The things which appeared to be the most beautiful turned out to be the most ugly, but that’s how it is. The underlying fact…the search for it makes you understand the world more unmistakably.
Don’t search perfection because probably that’s the beauty of it neither it can be found nor achieved we can just strive for it, the reason is simple the moment we achieve the perfection according to our perception, the moment next the definition changes again and something else starts looking perfect…..that’s how life gets a mission…either its search or achievement…so my conclusion, the search is still on and yes if anyone has came across any such person there lies the answer to my question!
I went for the search of the answer far beyond the confines of my mind, just gave it a challenge, analysed not people but personalities, not needs but desires, not accomplishments but aspirations, not truth but the reason behind it, not flower but fragrance, every time I found one personality is complex than the other everyone’s need were different than others’and everyone has their own aspirations, but yes I found one factor everyone had in common, everyone wanted satisfaction and they had a mindset that they will get it on achieving something(what this something is, is again a big question) I being no exception and what it takes to achieve this satisfaction in life is a perfect personality a balanced one, is it, really, but is it really possible, and how far is it achievable?
I saw people in different kinds of situations, they laugh, they cry, they fight, they give up, they lose control, sometimes they bang their heads against the wall in frustration, sometimes they kill themselves. I haven’t seen any person who hasn't been selfish at times, who never said anything vice, who never had a greed, who doesn't want to surpass others in whatever he does, one who never had a lust for anything in life.
So what is a perfect personality, one who can control his anger in the most exasperating situations, one who can come up with a most able idea to take a company to heights when its on the verge of bankruptcy, one who can work for the interest of people rather than himself and still give his best, one who can give most ideal solution for a most complicated problem, one who can smile when tears are at the verge, well there seems to be no perfect answer to this .
The more I searched the more imperfection I found. The things which appeared to be the most beautiful turned out to be the most ugly, but that’s how it is. The underlying fact…the search for it makes you understand the world more unmistakably.
Don’t search perfection because probably that’s the beauty of it neither it can be found nor achieved we can just strive for it, the reason is simple the moment we achieve the perfection according to our perception, the moment next the definition changes again and something else starts looking perfect…..that’s how life gets a mission…either its search or achievement…so my conclusion, the search is still on and yes if anyone has came across any such person there lies the answer to my question!
1 comment:
I believe we need to set our own parameters for perfection... "it's getting the best out of what we have" if we can achieve this we are satisfied. Perfection can never be compared with others as the parameters are jst too different. We hav to choose our own level of satisfaction... hence some people are always happy no matter what, while others even though having achieved a lot are perpetually glum.
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